Discouraging attitudes

It is disheartening to observe that the same endeavour is often praised in one instance and criticised in another, depending on external factors such as family support or societal perception. Take, for instance, the pursuit of music as a career. When an individual achieves success in this field with the active support of their family, society hails their efforts as a remarkable talent. However, when someone else follows the same path without familial backing, they are often subjected to harsh criticism. Society, in such cases, is too quick to dismiss their choices as inappropriate or unworthy, revealing a glaring double standard.

A similar pattern is evident when considering women pursuing careers in sports or other non-traditional fields. Those who are fortunate enough to have familial encouragement are often celebrated and viewed as role models. On the other hand, women who lack such support face immense resistance and judgment, not only from their own families but also from the broader community. Families, as the foundational unit of support, play a critical role in shaping an individual’s confidence and resilience. Meanwhile, society must learn to celebrate the courage to pursue one’s passions, irrespective of circumstances or outcomes.

Sahiba Jalal

Chitral